I grew up as an identical twin.
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That meant being rewarded for sameness, not individuality.
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Without a center to come back to, every external expectation carried too much weight. Cultural, societal, familial pressures stacked up fast.
I was so focused on meeting external expectations that I couldn't hear what was coming from within.
Every human wants to feel safe and loved, and somewhere along the way, I decided that meant I needed to abandon my internal self to get there.
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It didn't work.
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No amount of meeting expectations could change the fact that I was losing myself in the process.
Things only started to shift when I began exploring who I actually was.
Self-exploration through frameworks like Astrology, Human Design, and psychology gave me a way to map it all out.
Which signals were mine and which were external?
What felt aligned, and what did not?
That's when the noise got quieter.
That's when I started to find myself.
Now that I have a firmer sense of who I am, I love sharing what I picked up along the way.
So you can find yourself a little faster than I did.